Monday, December 29, 2014

Is He The One?

When problems and arguments happen in my relationship, I always end up asking myself "Is he the one?" It's not that I want to doubt him, but a relationship allows has that "what if." What if he doesn't see this relationship as serious as I am?  "How much time should I invest in this relationship, and is it worth it?" I'm not a love professional or anything like that :P but I have some expectations in how a guy will act when he truly cares for you. Sure all of these might not apply for every guy...I mean, they're all different and strange in their own male-ish ways >< but here is just a list of things I noticed through listening to some guy friends and my own relationship experiences: 

1. He'll get jealous...REAAALLY easily
you know, when he gets all grumpy and sulky when you're talking to your male friends. don't just take it as something that's annoying and appreciate that he's jealous of other guys :P (although crazy overboard jealously is a bigg no no)
2. He'll be talking about you to EVERYONE
I noticed that my boyfriend's friends and just people at school know things about me that I hadn't personally told them about -.- haha even though it's embarrassing most of the time, I feel really special thinking that he was thinking of me even when he was talking to other people ^_^ 
3. He'll want to impress you 
you guys know what guys do... :P whether it's a sport, an instrument, or  art...whatever it is, he's going to want to hear a compliment from you about it. 
4. He asks you for style advice
he'll want to know how you think he looks CX and how you want him to look like so he can look attractive in YOUR eyes! (I used a lot of "look"'s there)
5. He sacrifices things for you
games *cough cough* games games *cough* haha :P but yeah! he'll be giving up time that he could be doing things that he likes to be spending time with you to make you happy :D
6. He remembers things you tell him
This is something really important to me and is probably important to a lot of girls :3 we tell you things for a reason men! so you remember them!
7. He will never stop trying
relationships will die if one side stops trying. I believe that it doesn't matter how long you have been dating that person; everyday should be like the first day you met your significant other
Momo

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