Monday, December 29, 2014

Is He The One?

When problems and arguments happen in my relationship, I always end up asking myself "Is he the one?" It's not that I want to doubt him, but a relationship allows has that "what if." What if he doesn't see this relationship as serious as I am?  "How much time should I invest in this relationship, and is it worth it?" I'm not a love professional or anything like that :P but I have some expectations in how a guy will act when he truly cares for you. Sure all of these might not apply for every guy...I mean, they're all different and strange in their own male-ish ways >< but here is just a list of things I noticed through listening to some guy friends and my own relationship experiences: 

1. He'll get jealous...REAAALLY easily
you know, when he gets all grumpy and sulky when you're talking to your male friends. don't just take it as something that's annoying and appreciate that he's jealous of other guys :P (although crazy overboard jealously is a bigg no no)
2. He'll be talking about you to EVERYONE
I noticed that my boyfriend's friends and just people at school know things about me that I hadn't personally told them about -.- haha even though it's embarrassing most of the time, I feel really special thinking that he was thinking of me even when he was talking to other people ^_^ 
3. He'll want to impress you 
you guys know what guys do... :P whether it's a sport, an instrument, or  art...whatever it is, he's going to want to hear a compliment from you about it. 
4. He asks you for style advice
he'll want to know how you think he looks CX and how you want him to look like so he can look attractive in YOUR eyes! (I used a lot of "look"'s there)
5. He sacrifices things for you
games *cough cough* games games *cough* haha :P but yeah! he'll be giving up time that he could be doing things that he likes to be spending time with you to make you happy :D
6. He remembers things you tell him
This is something really important to me and is probably important to a lot of girls :3 we tell you things for a reason men! so you remember them!
7. He will never stop trying
relationships will die if one side stops trying. I believe that it doesn't matter how long you have been dating that person; everyday should be like the first day you met your significant other
Momo

Laneige New Basic Duo Set

This is the exterior of the set.
This set comes with 5 products. *I have listed the names in the description below*
Sorry^^; This picture is a bit blurry, but it is a screenshot of the essential steps for daily skincare.
Check the Laneige website | The Secret if you are interested in these helpful tips.
Hey guys! I hope you guys have been enjoying the festive season this winter~ I am here to review the Laneige New Basic Duo Set! Laneige is a South Korean brand that is owned by Amore Pacific. It is highly-known for their product's ability to revitalize and enhance the skin with their skincare products, and they also carry makeup products as well. I have been using these products for about two weeks now, and I can already see the difference in my skin. I had been searching for skincare products that would do a good job of moisturizing my skin. Because of the winter season, my skin has been very irritated and dry._. BUT I also wanted the skin products to have a specific fragrant, and Laneige products was the one for me! The set that I had bought came with the Laneige Power Essential Skin Refiner_Moisture, Balancing Emulsion_Moisture, Water Bank Essence_EX, Water Bank Moisture Cream_EX, Water Sleeping Pack_EX. The main purpose of this set is to add moisture to the skin and hydrate the skin. The price of Laneige New Basic Duo Set is approximately $72, which I think is a reasonable price for the exceptional results^^ HOWEVER. Remember that not all skincare products work well for everyone. This particular set is recommended for dry to normal skin types, so if you can, try asking for a sample tester! Anyways, this kit completely saved my skin, and I'm happy with this purchase c:

Have a beauty-filled day! 
Xoxo,
Susu


Sunday, November 16, 2014

Don't Use Me


I'm pretty sure that you all have had many moments where you felt that you were being used. UGHH ask me, and I'll be telling you story after story :P but no one wants to hear your sob story of how your friend back stabbed and used you just to get a guy's number...or how a girl would randomly start stalking to you as if you're their closest friend just to rip off some homework answers...or you know, something along those lines. It's honestly so stupid how people treat other people...and even more, how so-called-friends treat their friends.

"Why don't you just say what you really want and leave me alone rather than trying to keep the conversation going with lame answers? Cause you're not the only one with important things to do, you know? I have my own life to think about and sort out too, and I could be doing a ton of other things besides wasting my time talking to you, someone who obviously doesn't give a grain of interest in what I have to say anyways."

I'm the type of person who can't stand being second to anyone. If you're my friend, and you're talking to me, I want to see that you're putting in an effort in talking to me...don't you agree? I don't know :P maybe I just sound like a selfish brat to you...but honestly, I really don't like knowing that a friend is having a blast flirting with some other guy while she's half-chatting me without having any clue in the conversation we were having, and putting effortless "yeah"s and "ikr?"s. I mean it's fine if she wants to leave and chat some other day if she's busy, because it's not the fact that she's chatting another person that I'm  upset about. It's that she's constantly trying to keep the sad conversation going, when she obviously isn't really even taking in anything I'm saying...do you know what I mean? 

So these days have been really tough for me, like in trusting old friends and welcoming new friends... not to make this into some sappy rant, but I guess that's what it's going to become now :P (I'm sorry TT) high school is a period of life, where everything kind of gets shuffled and tossed around... and I understand that these friends may just be changing and developing into who they will become as adults...we all are making new friends, thinking about guys, want popularity... and all in all it's all good :3 because dude, me too! But it's a changing period for ALL of us... we're all going through situations and events that we aren't familiar with... but hey, as long as we're here living in and sharing one community, I just hope that we can all learn to respect and understand what's going on in each other's lives too...
Momo

Friday, November 14, 2014

Who We Are

Susu

Hi there, my fellow unicorns! My name is Olivia. I grew up in New York, and although I miss living in the city of lights, I am happy to be making endless memories with my friends here ("here" is confidential muahaha). I am currently a junior in high school, and I am striving to become a psychologist/psychiatrist in the future because I am highly interested in human behaviors, but I also want to help diagnose and treat people in need. It makes me happy to see people around me happy c: 

I am the "talkative" one in my group of friends. *I talk too much sometimes* *it's okay:D* haha I love spontaneous adventures, and exploring for new experiences. I adore crowded cities, bright lights, and opportunities to meet new people with various personalities. BUT I also like me-and-tea time, where all time is devoted to just me. Best of both worlds? XD

I love giving advice on fashion and beauty XD I guess you could say I am the *girlier* blogger as to Youngshin haha. I love trying out different trends, as well as experimenting with different textures and patterns with my own style. Makeup and clothes appeal to me just as much as food does XD..so yeah im excited to share my tricks and tips with you guys:D

What I like to do in my free time...I love online shopping and watching Korean dramas! *I am watching _Pinocchio_ as I type this* haha. Sadly, I spend waaaay too much money on clothes and makeup and I should really stop. *someone hold me back* *no it's no use T_T* LOL a-n-y-w-a-y-s. I used to be an obsessive kdrama fanatic, but now I satisfy myself with healthy doses of Korean drama and end my day with a selfie. I love taking pictures...of anything haha. I take pictures of nature, food, and family&friends. I think it is very important to capture moments with as much pictures my phone storage will allow^^;;

I'm kinda bad at controlling my mood and emotions towards other people. Something could easily tick me off , and I would thrust my anger towards everyone, including myself. I am still climbing up the positive ladder one step at a time. Hopefully, I can control my emotions, so that I don't affect other people's days negatively :-(


I strongly believe that motivation has the power to get you anywhere in life. o.k. not everywhere. BUT up to your maximum capabilities! The motivation, the inspiration you need to succeed at something, is going to get you closer to your goals. If you strongly believe that you can achieve something, and you put forth the effort, there is nothing you can't do! Always be positive about the future^.^

Momo

Hello Peoples! My name is Youngshin. I know, I know, that's long and a weird name to call your child but hey, that's why we're going to go by Momo here. :3 My name was actually Seulgi ("wisdom") for the first umm..month of my life, but then my church pastor decided to change my name to Youngshin, meaning "never ending faith" in Chinese characters. Nahh, not Chinese though. I was born in South Korea but am now living in the United States for..let's see.. about 14 years now? (specific location is secret >:D). I am a current junior in high school and am aspiring biochemical engineer! :D I also have a strong interest in listening and hope that one day I can produce music of my own :3 

People often refer to me as awkward and weird..and YEAH, I can see that, too. I am known for my extreme mood swings and will be happy one day, and then depressed the next. But hey! Overall I like to classify myself as a happy person :3 everyone has their ups and downs ^^

I easily open up to people who are willing to listen and become closely dependent and attached to my friends quickly. Because of this, I am also the type to hold long grudges towards friends who disappoint me or wrong me in some way. umm..and....yeahh..

Although I'm definitely not the person you want to go for beauty and fashion  advice, my ears are open for those with relationship problems and love issues :D I love cutesy cliche relationships, passionate love relationships, and everything in between. And am a complete sucker for a good story C: hahaha I love giving advice for relationships CX and am one of those loser children who work a little too hard to put their two friends together ^^;;;;

I am absolutely obsessed when it comes to making memories and keeping little souvenirs of anything and everything that happens in my life. I keep lots of boxes where I keep letters from friends, small gifts from holidays, souvenirs from travels.. and on and on and on..to look back to :3 I also am that loser kid who writes a diary entry every so often and write letters to myself to back at in the future.

By now, you probably can tell that I'm a rambler and love talking about myself .-. haha Overall though, I'm just your ordinary Korean girl, obsessed with sweets, good music, Korean dramas.. :D haha I am a strong believer in that every moment is precious, every memory is a lesson, and every person has a purpose.. and hope leave my own unique footprints in the vast sands of life. ^^